Transgendered Dating can be so Disappointing because of the stereotypes of Transgendered Women! So many trans-women have heartaches of dating because so many men are only looking for sex, many men will lie to them just to have sex! It also appears that most of the men will sleep with as many they can and also so many trans-women have a low self esteem and feel that they have to go beneath themselves for a man to give them attention or to say that their beautiful just to make them feel good about being a Woman! This is the reason why so many men take advantage of trans-women! No man can make you feel good about yourself but you!

There are a lot of people who would like to have relationships with transgendered people. Social issues not-withstanding against transgendered people and against homosexuality discourage some people from going after healthy relationships with transgendered persons. Yet, there are transgendered people out there that are looking for real relationships and there are non-transgendered people out there who want relationships with them.

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Gender identity and sexual preference are not a choice. Being who you are, you do not choose to be gay, lesbian, transgender, or bisexual. It’s not something you choose. Your sexual identity is a discovery of who you are as an individual. It’s how God made you.

For some, it’s an easy decision. They feel their identity as a male or a female and feel a strong attraction to the same sex. It’s not like they wake up on a Tuesday morning and say “you know what today I’m gay.” It’s a dawning of awareness. It’s like the peeling back of the layers of an onion. As you peel back those layers, you discover more and more about yourself- who you are, what you like, what you don’t like, what makes you happy, and what makes you sad.

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If you’ve been paying attention to the news, you already know that New York recently approved same-sex marriages for gay couples in the Empire State. Laws were passed and signed that allow gay people in New York to have all the same rights and responsibilities as straight people.

Meanwhile in California, the LGBTQ community are waiting for a decision from the U.S. Supreme Court. The decision was difficult for the state supreme court and is now being settled on a federal level, leaving the homosexual community in the Golden State in limbo for the time being. Hopefully soon Californians will enjoy the same level of freedoms and be able to pursue happy marriages with their partners.

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When I was growing up my mother always told me, “Do not be jealous of others. Do not wish for what others have. Do not fight to possess and control someone, because in the end you will be alone as nothing belongings to us but is merely an experience.” She was a wise Buddhist that attempted to sooth a young adolescents’ tantrums of wants that weren’t fulfilled.

It is true today, that I rarely feel jealous or envy, which I account for my upbringing and the love I was given as a child. Therefore, in the spirit of my mom I would like to pass on a footnote of knowledge hopefully, lightening up the weight of those emotions that have a hunger for our soul: jealous, anger and envy.

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